Spiritual Mentoring by Steven Poenitz 

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Coaching and Mentoring

 

            Coaching and mentoring are one-on-one relationships that use support and accountability to grow people toward a better future. Here’s an example of the difference. A person has a job opportunity that would move his career forward but requires relocating and leaving friends and family behind.


Coaching Approach

“That sounds like a great opening! It must be rewarding to be recognized like this.”

“Yeah, it sure is!”

“How would this move change your life?” “Well, probably the biggest difference is going to be the relationship with my parents. We’ll miss going over for Sunday dinner and the free babysitting. Vacations and dates will be a lot tougher. Oh–mom and dad are going to really miss doing the grandparent thing. I better talk this through with them.” “Is that a step you want to take?” “Yes. I’ll do it this Sunday.” “How else will this affect your relational life?” “We’ll be able to make new friends eventually. It’ll be harder for Patrice, because I’ll be spending a lot of time at the church while she is stuck at home with the kids. Her mom’s group is a big deal for her. We better talk that one over, too. I can check and see if the new church has a mom’s support group or something like it…” (Stoltzfus, 2005, p. 9).

Mentoring Approach

“That sounds like a great opening! It must be rewarding to be recognized like this.”

 “Yeah, it sure is!”

“I had a few similar opportunities when I was a youth pastor. One was a great move; the other was sort of a disaster.” “What was the difference?” “One position was in a college town with a lot of people in our age group. My wife thrived on the fellowship and loved the cultural events she could go to in the city. “Then we moved to a country church in Nebraska. People were spread out all over. They’d offered me 40% more than what I’d been making, plus the senior pastor role, which was a big step up. But my wife never felt like she fit in; she had a hard time making friends, and it was tough on her and on our marriage. In retrospect, she didn’t really want to go, but she was deferring to me. I didn’t tune into what my wife was saying, and that was a mistake. What is your wife saying about this decision?”


In the example . . . . the mentor is showing the younger pastor the ropes and giving wise counsel gained from life experience. A mentor is a more senior individual who imparts what God has given (wisdom, opportunities and counsel) to a more junior person. In the same situation, the coach is building the client’s decision-making ability by asking him to think things through in a structured way. A coach draws out the abilities God has put in someone else. When I’m mentoring, I’m teaching a person, letting him draw from me or learn from my experience. When I’m coaching, I’m pushing a person to draw from his or her own resources and experiences. Coaching is helping people learn instead of teaching them
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Steven Poenitz


            
Steve Poenitz project June 10, 2012



APA Reference List



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Articles


                   Book Critique Guidelines

                   Brian Jones Differentiates Coaching and Mentoring April 28, 2011

                   Carson on Paraclete Book Review

                   Cell to Celebration by Larry Evans

                   Core Virtues for the Practice of Mentoring

                   Elisha the Carrier of OT Pentecostal Wind

                   GORTNER-BIBLIOGRAPHY on Mentoring

                   Hermann Sasse Identifies the Paraclete

                   History and the Paraclete

                   Instructor Coach Mentor 3 Ways of Managing Learning

                   JAMS The Paraclete as Broker of Truth

                   Legal Precision of the Term Parakletos

                   Looking at Leadership Beyond our Own Horizon

                   Martin Luther King - I Have a Dream - at the March on Washington for Jobs and Freedom

                   Martin Luther King - Letter From Birmingham Jail April 16 1963

                   Mentoring and Coaching and Instructing

                   Mentoring Church Planters

                   Mentoring Joshua by Brian Jones

                   Metaphors and Symbols and Paraclete in John

                   ON LIBERTY - JOHN STUART MILL

                   Paraclete and Prophecy in Johannine Community

                   The Gift of Followership & The Law of Accelerated Returns[1]

                   The OT Prophet as Mentor

                   The Paraclete's Ministry of Conviction

                   Walt Williams Dissertation    password protected, please email to spoenitz@hotmail.com

                   Who Will Take Care of Us

Bibliographies


                    Des Boldeau Bibliography


Class Assignments


                    Assignments discussion for Module 1

                    Weekend assignment April 15, 2005

Classes

                    Weekend assignment April 15, 2005
                         
                    Jon Dybdahl

                                            Dybdahl Presentations


                                                                         A Work of Heart 1

                                                                         Assessing Temperaments Discussion Jon Dybdahl

                                                                         Blackaby and King Jon Dybdahl Discussion July 14, 2006

                                                                         Damage Factor Discussion Jon Dybdahl

                                                                         Dick and Miller's book July 20, 2006 afternoon

                                                                         Group Discussion A Work of Heart

                                                                         Group Discussion Leader's Journey July 20, 2006
                                                                          
                                                                         Guidance Jon Dybdahl July 14, 2006

                                                                         Invitation to a Journey Jon Dybdahl
                                                                       
                                                                         Jesus View of Ministry Jon Dybdahl Class Discussion July 18, 2006

                                                                         Margin Group Discussion

                                                                          Model for Doing Real Theology

                                                                          Postmodern Culture Jon Dybdahl July 17, 2006 Afternoon

                                                                          Real Theology Presuppositions Jon Dybdahl July 17, 2006

                                                                          Real Theology Suppositions Jon Dybdahl July 17, 2006 Afternoon

                                                                          Spiritual Disciplines II JonDybdahl
                                                                      
                                                                          Spiritual Formation Overview

                                                                          Spiritual Formation Summary Jon Dybdahl July 20, 2006

                                                                          Spiritual Gifts Jon Dybdahl

                                                                          Spiritual Pyramid Class Discussion Jon Dybdahl

                                                                          Synopsis of Spiritual Formation Class by Jon Dybdahl

                                                                          Synthesis of 6 Challenges

                                                                          The Minister and His Theology and Practice

                                                                           The Shape of Practical Theology book discussion Jon Dybdahl

                                                                           World View continued by Jon Dybdahl July 19, 2006
                                                                                      

                     Guest Lecturers


                                                                           Demon Possession Bruce Bauer Class Discussion

                                                                           Effective Leadership at Its Very Best Bill Hybels July 19, 2006

                                                                           Life and Growth of a Christian Leader Jon Paulien July 20, 2006

                                                                           Margin Group Discussion

                                                                           Michael Knecht July 14, 2006 Discussion

                                                                           Skip MacCarty Presentation on Stress Hawaiian Congress
                                                                           
                                                                           Stress Management Discussion by Skip MacCarty

                                                                           Stress Presentation by Skip MacCarty

                                                                           The Biblical Role of the Pastor Joe Kidder Class Discussion







                                             Miller Assessments


                                                                             Leadership Interaction Styles

                                                                             Personal Profile Puzzle

                                                                             Questions for Reflection
                                                                             
                                                                              Spiritual Gifts Inventory Test

                                                                              Spiritual Web Introduction

                                                                              Spiritual Web Scoresheets

                                                                              Task Type Preferences




                      Skip Bell


                                   Toward an Understanding of Leadership [Compatibility Mode]



                                             CHMN 747 Leadership


                                                    Assignments

                                                                                  Assignments discussion for Module 1

                                                                                  Weekend assignment April 15, 2005


                                                                     Book Reflections

                                                                                  Discussion of Embracing Diversity

                                                                                  Discussion of Henri Nouwen's book

                                                                                  Discussion of Janet Hagberg's book

                                                                                  Frank Smith's book

                                                                                  Leadership and Personal Power [Compatibility Mode]

                                                                                  Leadership and the New Science Journaled

                                                                                  Mentoring Adult Learners reflections

                                                                                  Preferred Futuring by Lawrence Lippit

                                                                                  The Leadership Challenge with Stan Patterson

                                                                                  The Lemming Dilemma

                                                                                  Toward an Understanding of Leadership



                                                                      Devotional

                                                                                   Ernest Young Devotional

                                                                                   Stan Patterson and Calling

                                                                                   Stan Patterson

                                                                                   Yat's Chinese church planting devotional



                                                                      Lecture and Discussion

                                                                                    Empowerment Theory

                                                                                    Faith-based Hope

                                                                                    Heart of Moral Philosophy

                                                                                   



                                                                      Power Points

                                                                                   2005 Doctor of Ministry Vision [Compatibility Mode]

                                                                                   ALEC 802 - Leader Development Process [Compatibility Mode]

                                                                                   Assertive Training [Compatibility Mode]

                                                                                   Becoming a Servant Leader [Compatibility Mode]

                                                                                   Commitment to LEAD [Compatibility Mode]

                                                                                   Empowerment - More Than A Theory [Compatibility Mode]

                                                                                   Influence Tactics [Compatibility Mode]

                                                                                   Integrity [Compatibility Mode]

                                                                                   It_s Not About Me [Compatibility Mode]

                                                                                   Jesus Method of Mentoring [Compatibility Mode]

                                                                                   Jim Collins-Change Model [Compatibility Mode]

                                                                                  John Kotter-Change Model [Compatibility Mode]

                                                                                  Leadership and Diversity [Compatibility Mode]

                                                                                  Leadership and Personal Power [Compatibility Mode]

                                                                                  Leading Change- Creating Leading and Managing Change [Compatibility Mode]

                                                                                  Mentoring [Compatibility Mode]

                                                                                  Moral Realm Decisions [Compatibility Mode]

                                                                                  Personal Vision Statement [Compatibility Mode]

                                                                                  SERVANT LEADERSHIP-Andrews Ministry Program [Compatibility Mode]

                                                                                  Servant Leadership-Neligh Academy -4-7-2005 [Compatibility Mode]

                                                                                  Sharing Vision Statements [Compatibility Mode]

                                                                                  The Power of Vision [Compatibility Mode]

                                                                                  VISION [Compatibility Mode]

                                                                                  Vision by Linda Becker [Compatibility Mode]



                                                                      Visioning

                                                                                   Benefits of Shared Vision

                                                                                   Casting Your Vision

                                                                                   Hector's Visioning Story

                                                                                   L Becker Introduction

                                                                                   Updated June 12, 2005


                            

                                 CHMN 760 Advanced Leadership


                                                                     Book Reflections

                                                                                     5 Dysfunctions of a Team

                                                                                     Christian Coaching Helping Others Turn Potential Into Reality

                                                                                     Co-Active Coaching New Skills for Coaching People Toward Success in Work and Life

                                                                                     Connecting The Mentoring Relationships You Need to Succeed in Life

                                                                                     Good to Great

                                                                                     Growing Givers' Hearts

                                                                                      Leading Change An Action Plan from the World's Foremost Expert on Business Leadership

                                                                                      Making Meetings Work

                                                                                       Spiritual Leadership Moving People on to God's Agenda
                                                                                     

                                                                                               Post-Session

                                                                                                                Good to Great

                                                                                                                Growing Givers' Hearts

                                                                                                                Making Meetings Work

                                                                                                                Spiritual Leadership Moving People on to God's Agenda



                                                                                               Pre-Session   

                                                                                                                 
                                                                                                                5 Dysfunctions of a Team

                                                                                                                Christian Coaching Helping Others Turn Potential Into Reality

                                                                                                                Co-Active Coaching New Skills for Coaching People Toward Success in Work and Life

                                                                                                                Connecting The Mentoring Relationships You Need to Succeed in Life

                                                                                                                Leading Change An Action Plan from the World's Foremost Expert on Business Leadership

                                                                                                                Making Meetings Work


                                                                 
                                                                  Devotions

                                                                             Skip Bell April 16, 2007   



                                                                 Journaling

                                                                             April 16, 2007

                                                                             April 17, 2007

                                                                             April 19, 2007

                                                                             April 23, 2007

                                                                             April 24, 2007





                                                                Powerpoint

                                                                              Authority [Compatibility Mode]

                                                                              CHMN760 Systems Thinking [Compatibility Mode]

                                                                              Coaching DMin [Compatibility Mode]

                                                                              Conflict [Compatibility Mode]

                                                                              Five Dysfunctions of a Team [Compatibility Mode]

                                                                              How to Change Your Church

                                                                              Jim_Collins-Change_Model [Compatibility Mode]

                                                                              John Kotter-Change Model-03

                                                                              Leading_Congregational_Change_D1 [Compatibility Mode]

                                                                              Motivation [Compatibility Mode]

                                                                              Planning process visuals [Compatibility Mode]

                                                                              Toward a Theology of Leadership - Kingship David [Compatibility Mode]

                                                                              Toward a Theology of Leadership - Moses [Compatibility Mode]

                                                                              Vision Driven Planning [Compatibility Mode]

                                                                            

                                                               Presentations

                                                                                A Model for Leadership Coaching by David VanDenburgh April 19, 2007

                                                                                Bob Whitesel  on Change Theory April 25, 2007

                                                                                Christian Coaching book by Gary Collins as assessed by David VanDenburgh April 19, 2007

                                                                                Coaching by David VanDenburgh April 19, 2007

                                                                                Dave Penno Time Management April 23, 2007

                                                                                David Penno Presentation on Time Management April 18, 2007

                                                                                David VanDenburg Last Session on Coaching April 19, 2007

                                                                                David VanDenburgh on Coaching April 20, 2007 by Jack DuBosque

                                                                                Jiri Moskala 2nd Session April 16, 2007

                                                                                Jiri Moskala on Old Testament Theology of Leadership

                                                                                Modeling the Way by Skip Bell April 25, 2007

                                                                                Organizing and Leading Ministry Teams by Stan Patterson April 26, 2007

                                                                                Skip Bell Narrative on Abundance Mentality

                                                                                Skip Bell on Authority April 15, 2007

                                                                                Skip Bell on Vision April 17, 2007

                                                                                Skip Bell Visioning April 24, 2007

                                                                                Systems Thinking and Organizational Culture with Charles Tidwell April 18, 2007

                                                                                Why People Won't Change

                                                                                         Making Meetings Matter


                                                                                                            group norms for a committee

                                                                                                            NYC exec comm job desc

                                                                                                            Skip Bell on Making Meetings Matter April 17, 2007
                                                             

                                                             Requirements

                                                                              2005 cohort CHMN 760 Advanced Leadership Competencies-Schedule

                                                                              CHMN760requirementsfor2005cohort



                                                            Visioning Process

                                                                              planning handouts  

                                                            Work Group

                                                                             One change you would like to see in your church or organization

                                                                             Work group May 30, 2007

                                                                             Work Group Session on Connecting Book


                                          Coaching

                                                           Fwd Coaching information

 

                        Stan Patterson 1

                                          Becoming a Servant Leader [Compatibility Mode]

                                          Change Process [Compatibility Mode]

                                          Commitment to LEAD [Compatibility Mode]

                                          Empowerment - More Than A Theory [Compatibility Mode]

                                          Integrity [Compatibility Mode]

                                          It_s Not About Me [Compatibility Mode]

                                          Jesus Method of Mentoring [Compatibility Mode]

                                          Leadership and Personal Power [Compatibility Mode]

                                          Managing meetings [Compatibility Mode]

                                          Mentoring [Compatibility Mode]

                                          Mentoring to Develop Leaders [Compatibility Mode]

                                          Mind Styles [Compatibility Mode]

                                          Organizing and Leading Ministry Teams [Compatibility Mode]

                                          Spiritual Leadership [Compatibility Mode]

                                          Summary from Monday [Compatibility Mode]

                                          Transforming Leadership- A Biblical Model [Compatibility Mode]

                                          Transforming Leadership Workshop [Compatibility Mode]



                         Stan Patterson 2

                                           Becoming a Servant Leader [Compatibility Mode]

                                           Change Process [Compatibility Mode]

                                           Commitment to LEAD [Compatibility Mode]

                                           Empowerment - More Than A Theory [Compatibility Mode]

                                           Integrity [Compatibility Mode]

                                           It_s Not About Me [Compatibility Mode]

                                           Jesus Method of Mentoring [Compatibility Mode]

                                           Leadership and Personal Power [Compatibility Mode]

                                           Managing meetings [Compatibility Mode]

                                           Mentoring [Compatibility Mode]

                                           Mentoring to Develop Leaders [Compatibility Mode]

                                           Mind Styles [Compatibility Mode]

                                           Organizing and Leading Ministry Teams [Compatibility Mode]

                                           Spiritual Leadership [Compatibility Mode]

                                           Summary from Monday [Compatibility Mode]

                                           Transforming Leadership- A Biblical Model [Compatibility Mode]

                                           Transforming Leadership Workshop [Compatibility Mode]



EG White Quotes

                        Two by Two Ministry in New Territory


Example of Survey Questions


                        Survey Questions for DMin Project


GCC Senior Pastor Leadership Conference

                        Coaching Process in Detail David  VanDenburgh

                        Coaching Review David VanDenburgh

                        Definition of Leadership

                        Developing a God-Given Stirring Passion Skip Bell

                        Discussion of Blackabys' book David VanDenburgh

                        Doug Tilstra on Servant Leadership

                        Knowledge Base of Leadership Doug Tilstra

                        Leadership and Teams in the SDA Church Doug Tilstra

                        Organizing and Leading Ministry Teams presentation Stan Patterson

                        Personal Vision Statement

                        Revised Personal Vision Statement

                        Stan Patterson on Mentoring

                        Vision and Stan Patterson

                        Workgroups David VanDenburgh



IRB

                       Andrews University Invitation Letter

                       IRB and Michael Pearson July 25, 2006


Mentoring Conferences


                       Denver Seminary Mentoring Conference

Mentoring Manual


                       Teaching Moments

Other Dissertations


                       Oosthouizen Mentoring by A Local Congregation

                       Southern Baptist Senior Pastor Mentoring Effectiveness

                       Walt Williams Dissertation


                              Sharon Heron

                                                Mentoring Sharon Heron Part 1

                                                Mentoring Sharon Heron Part 3 Highlighted

                                                Mentoring Sharon Heron Part 4

                                                Mentoring Sharon Heron Thesis Part 2


Pastor Employment Factors


                          Factors Challenging Pastoral Employment


Power Points




                                  Jon Dybdahl

                                                 equipped-trainers [Compatibility Mode]


                                  Skip Bell

                                                 Leadership Behaviors Presentation

                                                 Toward an Understanding of Leadership [Compatibility Mode]


Project

  
                                     Project Proposal

                                                    Final Proposal April 21, 2011

                                            

                               

                                   
                                    Vita

                                                   Steve's Resume'


                                                                 Evaluation and Outcomes

                                                                                      Chapter 5 Evaluation and Outcomes Feb 7 2012

                                                                                      Chapter 5 Evaluation and Outcomes Feb 7, 2012

                                                                                      Chapter 5 Evaluation and Outcomes Feb 12, 2012

                                                                                      Chapter 5 Evaluation and Outcomes Feb 16 2012



Project Completion Schedule


                                        Doctor of Ministry Program Completion Schedule Revised

                                      

Research Paper

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                                                    Followership  

                                                                  Defining a Research Question

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                              Tim Nichols


                                                         Tim Nichols Research Paper 2005 Leadership Cohort



Total Dissertation


                              Poenitz diss pre def April 8, 2012

Web Site Links

                             Mentoring Resource Links

Word Studies


                            Paraclete Word Studies

                            Paraclete

Writer's Workshop

                           Jeannette BrysonAndrews University      June 6

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